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December 21st, 2001
NEW BEDFORD -- It's tough enough
raising five young children. It's even tougher when your body doesn't work
the way it used to.
Rachael is often overly tired, her
body goes numb, and she gets severe headaches and vertigo. The condition,
which affects every aspect of her life, has prevented her from working.
By CYNTHIA GOMEZ, Standard-Times
staff writer
Since Rachael (not her real name)
became pregnant with her last child almost three years ago, she has developed
a condition doctors believe is multiple sclerosis.
"I used to love working," she said.
"I was a finance manager, and it was such a cool job. I was someone important
for once."
Although her husband's paycheck
covers the basic bills, they have had little money left over for the extras
most families take for granted since she became sick.
But recently, things have gotten
worse.
"We would be fine, except the engine
blew on my car, and we had to spend a fortune to get it fixed in October,"
she explained. "We also had to go to Texas a few months earlier, because
my husband's parents were both in the hospital and doctors didn't think
they would make it out alive."
Her husband, John, will likely have
to return to Texas soon. His mother needs a kidney transplant, and he may
be the only match in their family. But the money for the trip, or anything
else, is nowhere to be found.
"We can't even come up with the
money to pay our bills anymore," Rachael said. "Our phone was supposed
to be shut off last week, but I called and told them to put me on a payment
plan, and I'm so afraid my gas and electric will be shut off soon."
All of her children, ages 2, 9,
10, 12, and 13, are badly in need of winter clothing. Ten-year-old Brandon
and 13-year-old Amy are hoping for a Game Boy. But as Christmas Day draws
nearer, Rachael doesn't know how she'll be able to get her children anything.
"I just can't do it anymore," she
said. "Every time I think of our situation, I get so depressed. I want
my kids to have a Christmas."
Like many other needy families in
the area, Rachael is hoping that the Salvation Army can help make this
Christmas a bit brighter for her family.
Your donations to the Neediest Families
Fund will go to help families like hers during the holidays.
The goal of this year's campaign
is $110,000, and to date, $84,751.84 has been raised.
Contributions can be dropped off
at or mailed to The Standard-Times, 25 Elm St., New Bedford, MA 02740,
and can be made in memory of a loved one or special friend. All donations
will be acknowledged in print.